Dating a shy inexperienced guy
But to keep your romantic energy in balance, you will want to follow some basic rules.
Many women mistakenly assume that being overly friendly and "easy to get" will reassure the Shy Guy. Being "easy" and laying everything out on a plate will actually make him retreat further into his shell.
As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.
With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.did was I'd talk to him on the phone at night, see him in school during the day, and hang out on the weekends, like movies, or each other's houses. I got him to go out on weekends, and he started breaking out of his shell.Talking on the phone definitely helped too; we got to know each other and be more comfortable with each other.Anon, because he might use this and realise it's about him! He's really cute, and also really sweet, but he's super shy and I'm worried for the date because I don't want it to be awkward.
So there's a guy in uni who I recenlty got drunk with at a party and he confessed that he's had a crush on me for years... I'm also shy as well, and quite inexperienced with guys (never had a relationship and never had sex) but I realise that for things go well with him, I'll have to make moves and be a bit more forward than I usually am.Regardless of personality type, men are happiest when allowed to discover love at their own pace.