Pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men
Women who fall for unavailable men usually feel that they are more committed to the relationship than the men are.
These women usually feel that the men have all the power and control in the relationship.
But sometimes openings take time to reveal themselves.
It wasn’t until Sunday night, after Wanderlust had ended, that the fruits of Ana’s class, and some personal work I’d done over the past few months, began to reveal itself.
Have you ever had an elusive relationship with an emotionally unavailable man?
Somebody who was probably attractive, self-confident, funny, successful, and made your heart skip a few beats?
As soon as you became demanding, you started to grow apart.Perhaps you shared a lot in common with him and underwent an exciting emotional experience while interacting with him.You were sure that there was a promising beginning of a great relationship.However, it was my only chance to make one of her classes so I took the risk.
We were instructed to choose a part of the body to work with for the rest of the class – something that needed healing.Most loyal followers of Freud’s psychoanalytic theory believe the primary past relationship one attempts to alter and make a complete success is that between child and parent (I tend to believe that the pattern can originate from a variety of primary significant relationships and does not have to be parental in nature).